A guide for navigating the first steps of homeschooling with confidence
You’ve made the decision to homeschool—take a deep breath and give yourself some credit. This is a brave step. Whether it came after months of deliberation or a single moment of clarity, choosing to homeschool is choosing to reclaim your family’s time, rhythm, and values. So… now what?
Let’s walk through the first steps together, from the practical to the personal, so you can begin this journey grounded in confidence—not chaos.
1. Know the Legal Requirements
Before anything else, get clear on your state’s homeschool laws. In the U.S., homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but requirements vary. Some states ask you to file an intent to homeschool; others may require attendance records, testing, or a portfolio of work.
You can find state-by-state requirements through HSLDA or your state’s Department of Education. Bookmark the laws now—you’ll feel more prepared knowing what’s expected.
Tip: Keep a simple homeschool binder or digital folder with copies of any filed documents, attendance logs, and learning plans. It’s easier to stay organized from the start than to play catch-up later.
2. Officially Withdraw from School
If your child was enrolled in a public or private school, you’ll need to formally withdraw them. This usually involves a short letter to the school or district stating your intent to homeschool and the effective date. Be polite, but firm. You don’t need to justify your decision.
Not sure what to say? Here’s a simple template:
“Dear [Principal’s Name],
I am writing to notify you that we are withdrawing [Child’s Name] from [School Name], effective [Date], to begin homeschooling in accordance with [State] law.
Sincerely, [Your Name]”
Once this is done, you’re officially off the grid—and free to build a learning path that fits your child and your family.
3. Set Intentions Before Choosing Curriculum
It’s tempting to dive straight into buying books and materials (hello, rabbit hole!). But pause first. Ask yourself:
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- What do I want our days to feel like?
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- What skills and values matter most to our family?
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- What does my child need right now?
When you set clear intentions, choosing curriculum becomes easier. You’ll be able to filter out what doesn’t align with your goals and focus on resources that support your unique vision.
At Chalk & Ink Press, we believe homeschooling should support connection over comparison and purpose over pressure. Curriculum is a tool, not a solution—and it works best when guided by your family’s rhythm.
4. Start Slow (You’re Not Behind)
Repeat after me: You are not behind. Your child is not behind. You do not need to recreate school at home. In fact, the transition out of traditional schooling often requires a “deschooling” period—a time to reset expectations, decompress, and rediscover the joy of learning.
Use this time to explore:
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- Daily rhythms that feel sustainable
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- Your child’s natural interests
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- Local homeschool communities or co-ops
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- Library visits, park days, nature walks, and creative play
A slow start doesn’t mean a slow learner. It means you’re laying a thoughtful foundation.
5. Choose Curriculum that Works for You
Once you’re ready to explore curriculum, know that you don’t need to choose a full boxed set (unless that’s what you want). Many homeschoolers build a “patchwork” curriculum—using different programs for reading, math, writing, and life skills.
A few guiding questions:
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- Does this curriculum match my child’s learning style?
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- Can I realistically commit to this schedule?
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- Does it support our values and family culture?
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- Is it flexible enough to adjust when needed?
And don’t forget—free and low-cost options can be just as effective. Check your library, online printables, or our Totally Free Printables section for tools that support your learning goals without stretching your budget.
Trust Yourself. You’ve Got This.
Homeschooling isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about being willing to learn alongside your child. There will be questions, hard days, and unexpected wins. You’ll pivot, reflect, and grow.
At Chalk & Ink Press, we’re here to help you write your own story—one filled with meaningful learning, creativity, and confidence. You don’t need to have it all figured out to begin. You just need to start.
And you just did.
Ready for your next step?
Check out our 30-Day Mindfulness Journal for Families or browse our Homeschool Help section for planners, activity ideas, and more. You’re not alone on this path—and we’re glad you’re here.
